Everything Beyonce does is careful and thought out. Her entire image is perfection crafted from planning ahead. She does not ‘wing it’ or throw things into her performances and public appearances ‘just because’.
What she did at this award show was amazing, especially because of how intentional and thought out it clearly was.
Feminism is a scary word for a lot of people. Many women are afraid of calling themselves feminist because they think it implies anger, hatred of men, or a rejection of traditional femininity.
Beyonce presented everyone watching with two distinct images of what many viewers viewed as two very different women. There is the strong, independent FEMINIST. She is the woman who likes being in control and being in the spotlight. Then there is the WIFE and MOTHER. She is soft, sweet, smiling at the husband and child you can tell she loves and values so much.
For every girl watching who was afraid to be a feminist, afraid to be powerful, because of what she thought she would lose, this is an incredible message. You can be all the things you want to be. You can be both. Feminists can have amazing happy, full lives full of both traditional and modern womanhood.
Feminism means gender should not be a source of persecution or a restriction of your choices. Feminism mean the type of person you should be is based on what you value, not what outside forces pressure you to value because of your gender or biological sex. Shout at the top of your lungs that you are a feminist and proud. Then go and be the exact person that you want to be.
when you spell a word so wrong that spell check is like i dont know what to tell u man
When I was about 2 to 4 years of age, I developed a fear toward something that I will not say because the more people know about it, the more I’ll have to constantly fight it. This fear later on became my phobia. It sucks having to be so afraid of something to the point where I can’t even look at it and I hate hearing people say it. When I am turning a page in a book and my hand happens to be on a picture of it, I will immediately flip the book as my heart races. When I see it on tv, words cannot describe the amount of adrenaline I get. I can’t even get close and look at a fake or toy version of it. A lot of people think it’s funny to mess with my phobia because I often flip out and I get scared in which they enjoy as entertainment. NO. It is not fucking funny! You don’t fucking know what I feel inside when it is mentioned or when you purposely show me a picture of it or even constantly yell it out when I’m walking. I feel like I get a mini heart attack every fucking time it is mentioned or shown to me. On days that I see it even if it is just a picture or whatever, I honestly cannot sleep at night because it is stuck in my head; I can visualize it. I am so tired of people thinking that it’s not a big deal and that it’s funny. It’s a big fucking deal to me! I’m sure you know what it’s like to be scared of something. Well for me, it’s beyond being scared. A little respect is all I ask for.
I hate my friends right now! They’re talking about dolls on the group chat and freaking sent me a picture of a really scary one. I got a mini heart attack right there, mayn. I’m a really big scardy-cat. I can’t handle man, I cantttttt.